Perhaps you should stop painting all women with the same brush.... and ignoring everything that different women are sharing with you.

Someone who doesn't listen or refuses to accept the experiences/beliefs/opinions of others are some of the BIGGEST turn-offs for me.

Quite frankly, if you think you are dumb then do something about it. Learn. Practice. Change. They are all possible if you put forth the effort to try - it might not be easy or quick but it IS possible. Don't try to lie and pretend - you'll never, ever, have an authentic relationship when you're being fake. No one at all likes people lying to them!