Welcome to Psych Central (PC) Boundboi. Sorry to hear you are having abusive situation with husband. Many people in abusive situations create a safety plan in case violence escalates or abuse becomes unbearable.
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Many people choose a therapist that specializes in the area of most intensity for them and the therapist can serve as an advocate and reality check. Some people find the different forums give them the compassion and empathy they seek. http://forums.psychcentral.com

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