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Originally Posted by Shadix
That's true, pretending doesn't work, but neither does being myself. If being myself means showing everyone that I am dumb, then no it would not work. And no, you don't just stop being dumb, your IQ is pretty much hard-wired into you. The only thing you can do is keep quiet to avoid saying something stupid, and that falls under the category of pretending. So I'm pretty much screwed I think.
And if people don't like being lied to, then they should stop being judgmental and intolerant.
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I don't think you are dumb at all. You come across as intelligent person BUT I do think that you base your knowledge of the world on your own misconceptions or something you read on the Internet or something someone said rather than what's really there.
It results in you having view of the world that is mostly untrue. And because you insist you are right and argue about common sense things, you are sometimes giving an impression that you won't learn or that you know very little. At least that is how you are on here at times. If that is how you are in real life I could see how women might get frustrated.
You went to college and got college degrees right? So i assume you have at least average IQ. When it comes to social skills you could address in therapy and just start getting out there.
Many women nowadays aren't looking fur providers or some macho dudes. Those times are over.
But you are not dumb at all!!!
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