Another vote that you aren't crazy for expecting him to help out with the bills. I can't believe you did all the eBay work and didn't even get a dime from it. Maybe it's time to list some more of his stuff and just pay him when you're done paying your own expenses...

The only piece of this that's 'yours' is that it has gone on this way for so long - and I can't say that I'm not guilty of doing that same thing.

His line about the goats really was hysterical. Yes, he needs to take care of his goats (or sell them? give them away?), but does that really cost $700?