I brought it up not too long ago. He said he would be fine with it once we're out of credit card debt, but would want to go to a different T. He liked our T but wants to see someone without any religious affiliation. It's good to know that for now, he doesn't have anything against going to someone. And it makes sense to me to wait until we're out of the hole, too, it's just kind of hard in the meantime.

ETA: I realized that saying that "I dropped it" (referring to counseling) in my original post may have been misleading. I brought it up regularly for a while, then dropped it for probably 6 months. About 2 weeks ago, I asked again when we were talking about how we both felt distant. I guess I'm worried that even if we do eventually go back to counseling it could be too late, so that's why I posted. Just feeling stuck.