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Old Mar 14, 2015, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted by licketysplit View Post
Also, I think it's a systemic failure, not a condition of clients with abandonment issues. There's just a tremendous amount of incompetency in this field.
I agree. Therapy can be constructed to trigger one's most helpless, childish state--with the therapist posing as the inscrutable authority as the client as troubled, defective invalid. I've seen strong, competent women get weak-kneed, regressed and mesmerized when talking about their therapists.

I personally didn't feel the therapy relationship had much parallel to relationships outside it. My response were unique in my experience. Nor I believe my susceptibility calls for some grand diagnosis or indication of an issue. My therapists played a manipulative game, and I had a a human reaction to it.
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