I spoke to my husband on the phone just a short while ago. He wanted me to explain why I was upset and wanted us to see the therapist together. He was under the impression that our relationship was fine and that I just "dropped a bomb" on him.

I noted that I was feeling upset due to the lack of intimacy and due to the lack of intimacy caused my worry of the "other issue." He said sex isn't a priority for him apparently and I said but it was for me. I mentioned that I have been in need for so long and his lack of response that I was looking to purchase toys and cybering. (Yes it was a snipe.) He was angry with my snipe.

I explained that I wanted him and maybe we need to schedule it at least once a week. Oh, and apparently when he was in the mood, I was chatting on line so he didn't pursue me. ::rolls eyes::

He said that I need to get over the "other issue" and not factor them into my thoughts. He insist that I need to move on and not worry about him being a woman. He doesn't' want this topic to be brought up time and time again in our relationship. He explained that if I can't get over it then we have to reassess our relationship. I agreed and told him I will be willing to see the therapist when he finally gets the appointment.

Sheesh what a soap opera!