OK, at the risk of being the bad guy, I think there is something else going on here. You may have some legitimate mental health issues, and for that I can offer you heartfelt sympathy and loving encouragement.

On the other hand, these things don't make you totally dysfunctional. Your original post in this thread was organized, intelligent and well written. Yet you insist on wearing the "handicapped" label. You become distraught when people don't defer to you, and instead treat you much like any other human being. You want people to reinforce your own notion of worthlessness, as it in some way entitles you to some imaginary "privilege".

You used a guy in a wheelchair as an example, saying that the wheelchair was an obvious sign of his handicap, and that people made efforts to help him. But they don't help you. You were jealous of a guy in a wheelchair. I can tell you.... He would give up his wheelchair and any special assistance in a heartbeat, if he could.

On the other hand, you would probably hang a "Handicapped" sign around your neck if you could get away with it.

I apologize for not giving you much of the sympathy you were looking for here. That's because you were looking for it, and assuming some right to special accommodations. While you may very well have SOME issues, I suspect you are not really as dysfunctional as you would like people to believe. Your family seems to be taking the right approach, treating you like any other human being. You should thank God that they love you enough to tolerate your antics.