Welcome to Psych Central (PC). Sorry you are having a misunderstanding with your husband. I get frustrated too when a friend cancels plans because they can't get out of bed. I used to punish myself and stay home but now I just go off and do things alone. Any chance a couples counselor might be an option so both parties could discuss their needs and find equitable solutions or a resolution.?

If you are on meds, maybe you need to ask the doctor about making an adjustment because you are too tired. If you are not on meds, some people on PC will seek a diagnosis from a psychiatrist and meds that will help you cope with married life.

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