Thank you for your post. I appreciate your thoughts I am a bit overwhelmed at the moment. No, my husband doesn't know I post here. He came out to me over a year ago telling me he was a woman and he wanted to go through a sex change. He said our marriage was based on a lie because he was a woman before we were married. (in his mind never his body) He's was serious about going through with it he said even explaining the process and research.

Later after about four months or less of therapy he said he was wrong about being a woman and that he's suffering from PTSD because he had a rough childhood.

He's asked me "get over it" (the words about him being a woman) before and I stopped talking about it but the lack of intimacy brought those thoughts up again. He is upset with me that I can't seem to "get over it."