hi noodlesenpai
it is not your imagination. your family is dysfunctional. your mother is emotionally abusive. from your description, she is not meeting your developmental needs adequately. bedwetting can be a medical problem and should have been checked out long ago. there is actually medication that can help. having that fear of your mother yelling at you all the time is a sign of emotional abuse. you need help. please go to your school counselor. maybe print off what you have posted here and allow the counselor to read it so that steps can be taken to help you. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome