well, my husband has made me a better person. i was a mess when we first met. murderous and suicidal, choleric and utterly out of control. he believed in me, and with kindness and patience allowed me to find more peace and contentment. so yes, it's possible to honestly say this to someone.

my very best friend is also helping me in this respect. he knows my illness and is supportive and understanding. he leads me out of the darkness when necessary and shows me articles and interesting things pertaining to borderline. he is also making me a better person.