Thankyou all for replying, was much appreciated. I haven't been around for a few days, been having a really tough time. I also have hurt my hand so was quite sore to type. But your replies were helpful.

I know quite a bit about transference, and we have talked about it in session. But I feel it's more than transference.

I feel my therapist has become too involved with me now, and I'm thinking I might not see him again. I do have a lot going on just now. He is stressing out about it all, he thinks I'm out of control at the moment. I don't want to hurt him (I don't mean like in a fight or anything, I mean emotionally).

I have BPD, and I think he is very stressed due to my behaviour at the moment, he has told me he feels powerless. I have been harming myself pretty badly, and have been doing other things which I can't say on here. I just have so much going on at the moment. I really don't mean to upset him, and I don't want to hurt him.

This is such a hard decision to make as he means so much to me, but I feel for his own sake I should stop seeing him. He is getting too involved.

Sorry, I know that has nothing to do with what I posted about in the first place, just can't think about anything right now.

Thanks again for all the replies,

breathe x