I have a lot of trouble expressing myself. I definitely minimize any emotional reaction I may have to T. My stock phrase it "it's stupid"... The few times I have managed to tell a T that something they did upset me, it went ok. It's only ever been a very few times, and only with whom I felt comfortable. Mostly it was my own discomfort with expressing myself that made it difficult. My T's have all been good about discussing it.

Your T has proven himself safe over the years, so it's fair to say he'd likely take this well.