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Originally Posted by NowhereUSA
Yeah. I do feel anger about going IP even if I understand why (I really would have gone through with my plan). There's just some stuff that happened while I was IP where I felt like he dropped the ball and I ended up undergoing some stuff and I felt very alone.
I know he'll feel bad about it which is why I don't even want to bring it up. How lame. I yell at my husband in an argument but oh no, don't want to hurt T's feelings *sigh*
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I suspect he can handle it. It would be good discussion as a way to process that time. In my case, if something like that would happen, I'd definitely want to talk it through because IP wasn't a one-time occurrence for me. Being able to talk frankly about the whole IP experience has improved my level of trust and safety. My T has never had anything much to do with my IP admissions other than working with me to help me make the decision to go; no contact while IP. But my pdoc has everything to do with my IP admissions and he and I have definitely had a few of those talks. He honestly appreciates and respects my honesty and input.