I know how you feel. I recently lost a ton of weight, and now some people are commenting that I'm looking a little thin. But I really don't see it. I still feel like "just a few more pounds". I once went out with a guy who told me I am ugly and fat and I won't ever get anyone like him. I then starved myself for days to lose weight and when I told him he actually said to me "maybe you need to starve yourself a bit more then". People like that are jerks and don't know what they are talking about. I still look in the mirror and see ugly, even though twice in the past month someone has asked if I was a model. try as I might its hard for me to see that. Let people who love you be your guide. If they really feel you look too thin, they are probably right, as we ourselves will never see it. So trust those who love and care about you, and talk to those who will support you. It's important for you and your kids that you are healthy and well.