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Originally Posted by Sky101
Sometimes I just wish someone could hold me that truly loves me and would tell me it will be okay we will get you fixed let me know what I can do let me know how to help he doesn't know when to walk away he eggs it on and on and makes me bipolar worse triggers the worst in me the bipolar gets out of control completely with what he says he tries to talk about our marriage and things cusses at me all the time and when I'm bipolar it makes everything so much worse
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(((Sky))) Yeah this is so hard on relationships I tell you .... it's so difficult at times for those without a diagnosis to understand.....has he ever been with you to therapy? I think perhaps he too needs assistance with some strategies, I don't think he's exactly approaching this the right way, not that he intends for this to occur, he thinks he is doing what he knows how to do best but at times could be causing more damage. Your therapist may be able to suggest and work with him on more appropriate strategies?