I am trying to make a better connection with my T. I have a good intellectual connection but we don't have a good emotional bond yet. I am not sure how to go about making or strengthening that connection. I write letters to him periodically, and we talk about what I feel works and what doesn't, when he gets it dead on and when it's nowhere close. I have emphasized that I feel we will only make superficial progress if we cannot access that emotional connection.

I'm not sure what to do. I know he wants to connect to me and I thikn he is trying. Please don't tell me it's a matter of time, that much I already know, I want to know what I can do to help it along. We "click" in so many ways that I am surprised I don't have the connection already as I generally get attached quickly to people that I click with and who show interest in me. I don't understand what is impeding this.