Yes.

This is a disaster. What you are describing is an unhealthy relationship, on both ends. Neither person trusts the other. One person isn't communicative for nearly two weeks after a fight while the other is looking elsewhere. This, for me at least, would be disastrous and I think that it would be for anyone. It sounds like there are a lot of issues here, and that you've attempted to work through them and I applaud you for that. But it also sounds like things haven't really gotten anywhere and you're spinning your wheels and that may not be good for either of you. It may sting but I believe divine1966 was right on the mark.