My roommate and I are both females and in our last year of college. She started dating this guy about 5 months ago. She would come home crying about him a lot during those months and I would tell her that it isn't normal for your boyfriend to make you cry and be so upset so often. Well he broke up with her about 3 weeks ago and she was completely destroyed. Skipping class, binge drinking, crying all the time. But she finally told me everything that he was doing. He constantly called her a slut and other names for things that she did before he even knew her, even though he's slept with way way more people. He would scream at her, get jealous if she spoke to a guy (even his own roommates), ignore her if she made him mad, punched a hole in the wall right next to her once, all kinds of things. I thought I had her convinced that this was abusive, but over spring break they hung out and are now "starting over". She is convinced that he is "the one", but all I see for their future is him following her to work, spying on her to make sure she isn't friends with any other guys, and turning physical any day now. I want to talk to her this week about it because I'm scared for her, and honestly scared for myself if he turns physical in our shared house. Help!