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Originally Posted by palerefraction
First and foremost, don't marry people you work with. It is a relationship most people do not know how to have. Your work life becomes your home life, and you have no home life because it is your work life.
I think she is probably very intimidated by such quick actions, I agree with you there. These feelings may be why she said she has no internet. I know I have fibbed like that to people when I want them to stop bothering me about something.
She may have different approaches to this "relationship" and I highly suggest that you spend more time with her before you send any impersonal messages online about wanting to marry her- this will not sit well for most women.
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My explanation was not accurate actually, she is sitting with us in the same area / office but she belongs to another department and I don't have any shared work with her and as I mentioned I go to the head office only once a week.
My problem is that I really don't see her much and I don't like waiting, because I really can't develop a bond with her in these few times and colleagues around us, I am a straight forward person and always like to take the shortest and most obvious ways.
I decided not to send her any messages because this will worsen the situation.