Dear Breathe,
I had a really intense transference reaction with a T. - in retrospect, he meant very well, but did not know how to set appropriate boundaries - and the transference was too strong on both sides. As Stormyangels said, it feels really good at first - but believe me, it could become REALLY damaging. I am still recovering from the damage three years later. Transference releases some really powerful and painful emotions, and needs to be handled very carefully. Please be careful. It sounds like it would be a wise decision to move on.
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