Hi there, just want to get others people viewpoints/opinions on this.
I'm kindda debate with someone if my husband is controlling.

Something is on my mind in the past few hours, lol!!…. In another Forum that I'm usually on. As we were posting/sharing in the topic about 'husband', etc....
One poster there said this: ---- “The reason why my husband married me is because of my passivity and sexually inexperience, becasue he needed a wife that he can CONTROL.”

okay, I admit it does kindda make me wonder if this is true, lol.... wondering…. should I ask my husband this when he get off work?…. But my guts feelings telling me that if I asked him this, he will be pissed off.

Do you find this situation below is controlling?… That one poster reply say my husband is controlling, and he married me because I’m easy for him to control.

Me and my husband live in the same neighborhood, that was how we met, date and married….. We live in a bad neighborhood/city area; here have alot of gangs and violence..... Back then, sometimes I go out late at night, like 1-2am and I still drive outside, going out…. Being a girl, going out alone in the middle of the night with high heels on is a bad idea.
At the time he was my boyfriend. He said IF I want to go out in the middle of the night, he will NOT stop me….. I can go anywhere I want, he won’t stop me BUT he will follow me quietly and watch me from far away, to make sure that I’m safe.

Some read this say my husband is creepy, because he quietly following me and watch me from far away to make sure I don’t get hurt or anything bad happen to me…. He did what he said, even now we are married he still say/do the same thing as before…. But I listen to him now, I don’t go outside that late anymore…. okay, he might be creepy alright, but I think he do it out of caring for me.

Some say he controlling, but I don’t think so because he not stop me from going out in the middle of the night, he just want to make sure I’m safe…. I really can’t wrap my head around thinking he is controlling. I know I’m not blindly in love, if he controlling, I would know by now…. I’m the one that strict with him. I’m the one always testing his love, his persistent and his patience.

So what your take on this, is what he doing controlling?
Heck, what is wrong with me, my hormones is whack today, why am I questioning my husband like this, lol