Thank you for your reply, I think so too.

In defense of my husband. I asked him not to go with me, it is in the middle of the night, it late at night anyways.... I dunno, I rather have him sleep. And I wasn't gonna be gone for long time, so I didn't need him to go together.

I'm always the independent type of girl, I'm used to go out alone..... At the time he was just my boyfriend, we weren't married at that time..... I told him no need to go with me, so he respect that.
But he said he is worried about my safety, afterall we living in "the ghetto". Those in USA should know what kind of neighborhood is this.... Here have gangs, violence and even shooting.... This is in the middle of the night, so he worried, he would just follow me from far distance to make sure I'm okay.

I think he just being over-protective.... I'm a petite/short height girl, so I love to wear high heels everywhere she go. You know to look pretty and look taller, Lol!!!.
But when it rains outside, he always remind me to Not to wear high heels, wear shoe instead..... Because wear high heels out in the pouring rain, I might slip and fall.... He worried about my well-being, he caring like that.... Perhaps he just being protective.