No. By all means I'm not dependent on him. When we first met. He brought his clothes and moved in with me. I had my own apartment, working and going to school. When he moved in he didn't work. He got a job about 6 months later. He sold his truck and about three months we shared my car. At any time have I been dependent on him. My mother has worked all her life and had a very good job when she married. She is very independent. When we married I took two part time jobs to help with bills ( which I do pay them myself).
I will be completing my school in 8 weeks then I will go on to my full time job. I'm being passive right now because getting irate with someone wont help when he is already worked up about things.