Wow. You obviously don't know much about me and didn't read or understand my post.
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However, once she learns the disrespectful and entitled way you treat women, she will likely be uninterested.
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I am not disrespectful to women. I don't interact with that many girls, but the girls I do know through friends think I am really nice.
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A "feminist" is someone, male or female, who believes in gender equality. Anything else you "think" a feminist is a negative stereotype. Clearly, you have a problem with women if you are hostile towards feminists.
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I believe in gender equality and I gave feminism a chance. But it became clear to me that most feminists are intolerant bigots. Tell me, why is it that almost every feminist seems to have an intense hatred for men who date younger women? You know, many of these feminists even admit that they don't think it's as wrong for women to date younger men. Oh and I'm not just talking about female feminists. So actually, it is feminists who are hostile towards me.
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You also are under the misperception that a woman who is not initially interested in you will become so if you are around her and talk to her more-- and, therefore, you believe you are entitled to continue to approach women who are not interested. You do not have that right. And, usually, if a woman knows she is not interested right off the bat-- she will not suddenly become so later.
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Really? Because I have met girls before whom I wasn't interested in initially, but then when I talked to them more, I became interested. Are you suggesting that women are all shallow and only base their attraction off of guy's looks?
But either way, I am just being friendly with this girl. I am not even trying to ask her out. I didn't even "approach her" I just asked her a question about her ethnicity when she asked me about putting music on in the multipurpose room and then the next time I said "hey how's it going". I am just asking about if I should be saying hi. Typically when I see someone I know at the gym, I say hi to them. Even her friend, who works at the gym, always says hit to me when she sees me. It is just a bit odd to me when she ignores me because I am not sure how I am supposed to react. I am paranoid that somehow I am the one who is expected to say hi and maybe I am coming off as rude. But then there are people like you who think that saying hi would also be disrespectful. It's just really confusing.
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You have the right to ask this woman whether or not she is interested. However, based on the fact that she has ignored you several times, I think it's pretty clear she is not. Women DO send signals and do communicate through body language. If they're interested, they say hi, they lean in, they want to be around you, and they smile and laugh at the things you say. If they ignore you, it's pretty clear they are not interested. However, it is very hard to be "rude" to someone who is just saying hi-- so women are usually polite and will talk back so as not to come off as "stuck up." It's hard to say "leave me alone" to someone who hasn't done anything wrong just because you aren't interested in their company.
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Did you read my post? Like I said, I noticed her looking in my direction multiple times before, and this was before I even realized that I think she's cute. I don't think all women act the same way when they like a guy. She actually seemed pretty friendly when we talked though. Do you really not think it's plausible that she's shy? Do you think every girl is super confident and openly shows interest when they like a guy?
This is just a conjecture, but I am thinking you don't want her to be interested because you think it is wrong for a 27 year old guy to date a 19 year old girl. Am I correct?