I think the bottom line is like the old advertisement for the lottery - if you dont play, you cant win! Make a commitment, man! If this one says no, you try someone else. Thats the privilege of being a man. Saying yes or no is the privilege of being a woman.

Then again, it might be like trying to date someone at work, to date someone from your gym. If it doesnt work out, it could be embarrassing to have to see them all the time.