Hey Les, you know I tend to expect too much from myself. I put up with a brother in law in my house for 2 years longer than was reasonable. I just think I should be able to do certain things. The meds have helped me think more clearly about what I want and what is important and necessary for me. I am not always good with the boundaries but slowly I am finding ways to add joy to my life. Hard right now because of crisis but in general. What do I like and need? There is a bumper sticker I see on a car at my office that says this is not practice, this is life, live. I want to learn to do that. Peace to your heart Leslie