Hi, Roseheart. I don't know how cool your boss is but you can let him/her know something is going on without disclosing you have DID. Lots of people go through marital issues for example and have extra stress. You could say you have something personal going on. Personally, I wish we could all announce our DID publicly at the same time and then it wouldn't be a big deal bc we'd all do it together. Have you and your husband ever tried it want ed to try marital therapy? It sounds like you love each other and you both could benefit from it.