i do understand how it feels to be deemed passive aggressive & the entire "charity case" vibe as I've been called so, and interacted with as such before as well. the thing is, considering what you're dealing with in terms of neuropathy, well I don't know, the thing is, people do not understand the magnitude of what you feel. I don't know, in my experience, when those who are "well," or in "good health" read/hear expressions of illness, they have nothing to refer to beyond a common ailment which passes spryly.

quite simply they do not know how it feels, and of course, taking an empathetic stance would be ideal. do not compare yourself to them, you are yourself, you are unique, with, or without those ailments. wherever you are, it should be understood that you are not able to physically endure as much as the average person without causing yourself pain. it should also be understood that dust is harmful to you.

there should be mindfulness, no, you are not a charity case, you are a human just as they, please don't be angry.