I would have never of thought he would change and say I need to do everything in the house. It would if been nice If he communicated this with me. When he told me to leave about 6 weeks ago I had no clue why I was asked to leave. He wouldn't speak. All he kept saying was it was ALL my fault but still had no idea what I did ( that's why I was so confused). As the next couple weeks unfolded he told me I crushed him because I didn't cook all the time, I asked him to help me match socks, and the house needes to be cleaner ( our house is clean).
When this happened I was very confused. How would I know he was crushed when he never said a word? The only communication I received was to get out. Yes, of course I was shocked. One minute you think the marriage is good then the next day I'm out the door. What timing. Now I'm coming to an end and am thankful for all the great responses from everyone. This was not the man I married but this is what I ended up with. I don't bring in the big dollars right now but I do bring in money to pay for things. Yes, I do continue to pay the bills and now my tuition. I'm over the crying and confusion. I'm still young and have a future ahead of me with or without him.