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Originally Posted by Shadix
Wow. You obviously don't know much about me and didn't read or understand my post.
I am not disrespectful to women. I don't interact with that many girls, but the girls I do know through friends think I am really nice.
I believe in gender equality and I gave feminism a chance. But it became clear to me that most feminists are intolerant bigots. Tell me, why is it that almost every feminist seems to have an intense hatred for men who date younger women? You know, many of these feminists even admit that they don't think it's as wrong for women to date younger men. Oh and I'm not just talking about female feminists. So actually, it is feminists who are hostile towards me.
Really? Because I have met girls before whom I wasn't interested in initially, but then when I talked to them more, I became interested. Are you suggesting that women are all shallow and only base their attraction off of guy's looks?
But either way, I am just being friendly with this girl. I am not even trying to ask her out. I didn't even "approach her" I just asked her a question about her ethnicity when she asked me about putting music on in the multipurpose room and then the next time I said "hey how's it going". I am just asking about if I should be saying hi. Typically when I see someone I know at the gym, I say hi to them. Even her friend, who works at the gym, always says hit to me when she sees me. It is just a bit odd to me when she ignores me because I am not sure how I am supposed to react. I am paranoid that somehow I am the one who is expected to say hi and maybe I am coming off as rude. But then there are people like you who think that saying hi would also be disrespectful. It's just really confusing.
Did you read my post? Like I said, I noticed her looking in my direction multiple times before, and this was before I even realized that I think she's cute. I don't think all women act the same way when they like a guy. She actually seemed pretty friendly when we talked though. Do you really not think it's plausible that she's shy? Do you think every girl is super confident and openly shows interest when they like a guy?
This is just a conjecture, but I am thinking you don't want her to be interested because you think it is wrong for a 27 year old guy to date a 19 year old girl. Am I correct?
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What's with obsession the feminists? Where do you interact with feminists? Or you just read about them? And what do you care about them? What difference do feminists make in your life?
So first u weren't asking anyone out because your brother and some people you don't even know think it is bad to date young girls, then you don't date because you think your dump and incompetent, then you dont date because of some mysterious feminists.
Please make that therapist appointment and start working on whatever skills u need
I say it with compassion as many of us including me have our relationship issues but stop blaming some non existent perceived ideas or people. Address true issue or it will never improve. Please do so
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