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Old Mar 17, 2015, 05:09 AM
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Originally Posted by Shadix View Post
Personally, I think the real issue here is that some people just can't accept the idea of an almost 27 year old guy chatting up a 19 year old girl. But of course, they don't come out and say it's about age because they know they can't win that argument. So instead they twist the story to throw in all this BS that isn't part of it.

I am assuming Scorpriosis is a feminist from what she said. Well, I have NEVER talked to a feminist, online or in person, who would be ok with a 27 year old guy dating a 19 year old girl.

You need to abandon victim mentality

The real issue is that you want to date but don't know how (no shame in that) but instead of addressing lack of social skills perhaps through therapy you make up non existent barriers and argue on the Internet. That is a real issue

I am in therapy and one of main issue is relationship issues ( different than yours I have no social anxiety or trouble finding someone to date but have serious issues of other sorts) my t gives me good suggestions. Am I going to apply them remains to be seen but at least I
Am trying.

Why don't you try to improve instead of adapting victim mentality?

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