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Originally Posted by Hooligan
Hi hsauce180
Thank you for introducing yourself to us here at Psychcentral.
Welcome.
This is a great place to be for online support.
I am sorry to hear that you are struggling with some thoughts regarding your girlfriends past sexual history.
I can see how this would be the case.
I have found an interesting article that you may wish to read that deals with this specific topic.
Sure, I understand that some points raised may not personally be relevant to your situation at hand, but there are some very valid points in this article that are worth considering.
10 Ways To Deal with Your Partner's Sexual History Article:
10 Ways To Deal With Your Partner?s Sexual Past (Because You Have To) | The Date Report
Take care and please let us know how you go. |
That is an excellent article, hope it helps the OP.
Just wanted to chip in my OH was very obsessed with my past when we got together, the irony is I was a virgin and so my past was very tame. He didn't even like the idea of me so much as having kissed another guy, which was pretty much all I had done, whereas he'd had many partners (didn't bother me as it was in the past before he knew me and I trust him). IMO it was insecurity driving his obsession, although I didn't understand that at the time, it was hard for me to cope with it. Jealousy is very destructive and when it's retrospective it's impossible to do anything about it.
She's with you now and that's all that counts - please see point 10 on the list.
