No its not easy to up and move. At this point there isn't much more I can do. I put full trust in my husband and for him to do this after 6 years over dinner and laundry ( not that I had laundry everywhere)? He always had clean clothes and so did I. To me when you marry someone you work on issues that are a conflict not just throw the other one out of the house and give the cold should for close to two months now.
That why I said I will have a hard time trusting but in time I will again. Everything takes time. Oh and I'm not done with this forum. This has been the best thing for me. As long as I tell the truth then I can see how outsiders see this and voice their opinion. I have this funny feeling that he has told stories that are more to defend his actions. Which are not true especially to his family.