i have a friend whos father needs help. half the time he is a very nice guy and is good to be around. then he changes and the littlest thing sets him off. last time i saw was that friends mom had her phone with her. he thinks she is having an affair.... which she isnt. there is no evidence that she is doing anything wrong. but when he found the phone in her pocket there was a huge argument in which he upset her so much that she decided (again) that she wanted a divorce/seperation the prob is he always manages to make it up... she wants her old hubby back. he gets violent occasionally and is permanently emotionally abusing her and the kids when he is like this. he is very controlling. next time i see him i want to tell him that if he doesnt get help in the next month i will call the police but i dont know if he wil believe me and anyway his wife doesnt want to getanyone else involved.... he is frightened of getting help i think, and is also frightened of losing his family. if any one has any ideas of what to do or what may be wrong,,, please tell me id b very grateful
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