Your going back to look at her FB doesn't mean you screwed it up. That is normal behavior! Even your head conversation, about putting the pics on her website is normal. You are involved in a relationship like no other. You can decide to have that conversation (I don't like secrets), or not. But, if you tell her, is that adult to adult telling her, or is that the little rainbow who wants to keep her to herself? Also, you don't have to tell her how you feel about the photos, unless she ask, but IMO you owe it to her to let her know you peeked, perused or whatever, and not leave an important part of your therapy to just be debated on this forum. You've come to far. My opinion only.