I am typing on my phone so pardon typos or autocorrect. I am struggling here. I started seeing this guy, I like him a lot. I know he likes me, am not sure how much but fur sure he does. I am kind of falling for him I guess.

My typical thing is to like unavailable men so my t keeps telling me to keep my eyes open and bs mindful of red flags. Well easy to say. The thing is I feel like I want more from a guy. Emotionally speaking more, more him calling texting more expressing affection (when we not together he is affectionate when we together) etc more time with him etc

At the last session my t told me to maintain my distance to let guy to come forward more. If I am very available he will supposedly pull away more. That feels like a game to me. I feel that it is more natural for me to tell him what I want and how I feel. Otherwise it feels like a game.

T says I have to play a bit of a game being distant with him because of my past experiences of men talking me for granted
As I am too forward.

I feel anxious about doing what she says. And feel anxious telling him how I feel (wanting more attention). Overall I feel pretty miserable today cried all morning etc

I don't believe in games. I believe in honest communication. I need your help guys as I am pretty upset today

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