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Old Jun 10, 2007, 07:03 PM
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Direction said:
but no spark felt from that person...at least so I think...

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There's two people in any relationship. You can only know about yourself and whether you feel a spark and whether you feel a spark from the other person. But even if you do/don't feel a spark from the other person, you still have to do "reality testing" and discuss what the other person feels! What you feel "about" them is not the same as what they feel, ever!

Ask the person you feel a spark for what their experience is like as you tell them "I enjoy being with you" or whatever. "Show them yours" :-) and ask in exchange for them to show you theirs. That's the only way a two-way relationship can work. It's called "communication" :-)

{{{Direction}}} Hope you find a "certain" someone so your loneliness abates.
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