hi
this does sound confusing. it does sound very much like an attraction is there from your responses to him which it sounds like you realize but are thrown off by the fact that there is no desire to have sex. i think this would be explained by the fact that you have been asexual until now. it is just not a part of your thought process to have sex. you are thinking about the other parts and wanting the other parts of a relationship, but sex has never been part of that for you. does that make you gay? only you can answer that after you have explored and discover where your feelings lie. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome