My question is the same as Sunny's, I'm not really sure what self object transference is....need a further explanation to understand that, Echoes.

Interesting that Pink said we transfer general relationship patterns....this makes sense. I was recently thinking about how intense it gets with T sometimes and trying to define the relationship--Is he my mother, my father, my husband, my son???? Hmmmm, never sure which shoe fits....on different days, he's different people and on some days none of the above!

Good thread.

PS I just spent this evening transferring my signature onto many insurance forms for T and pdoc visits. I wish they would transfer some of their $ into my bank account!!
LOL