Ahhhhh, thank you so much for pointing that out, Perna. I am continuously amazed at how much I am dominated by black-and-white thinking. And I normally have pretty good self-awareness... but when it comes to the black-and-white thinking, I normally do not catch it unless it is pointed out to me. I guess it has become so much my way of dealing with things, that it often goes unnoticed. Lots of times T helps me become aware of it in session. This time, you did.