As an update on my end, Mrs Webgoji is headed to the psychologist and gynecologist on 03.26.2015 to determine if there is anything medication or biologically - wise that might be causing dropped libido. As I mentioned before, she used to be a front runner for Naughty Housewife of the Year ( ) but since about last October, she's had zero libido.

A couple weeks ago she got really drunk and that put her in the mood. Makes me feel kinda crappy that she had to be drunk to endure sex, but at least she's getting it checked next week so that's movement in the right direction.

She develops anxiety at bedtime worried that I might be in the mood (which these days I am perpetually). It's like I'm living with a 95-year old woman. All the fun in our marriage has just gotten sucked away into some black hole.

BUT! Overall, it's just a matter of getting through it until we can find out what's wrong and go from there. I just gotta hang on.