(((((((((((((((Stefano))))))))))))))

Welcome your in the right place for support and not alone.

Also con grad on your good health...you are the same age as me -1.

Pain is what other can inflict on someone to make themselves feel better.

Pain is also what we inflict on ourselves for lots of reasons.

The question how will you deal with this...?? And which pain is being inflicted on to you...?

It seems the first...if that is the case......use your 'sympathy" emotion....knowing this person is total sad and lacking self-esteem. You may be surprised how better this may make you feel. whilst taking away the angry...(I'm say this to help your deal with the emotions, not who may be right or wrong.)
Pain and angry.............bad combination....try and change you’re thinking patterns....I know this is easier said then done.

Hope this helps a little.

Good Luck
SpringStar