Lunatic Soul:

I understand where you're coming from. I do love my girlfriend for who she is, but to me, sex is very important in a relationship. My girlfriend definitely doesn't have another guy. I think she just really does not like sex at all. It doesn't feel good to her, and that really takes a lot of pleasure of it away from me too. I am unsatisfied with her sexually, but I can't help that. There is a huge difference between us when it comes to sexual taste, and drive. I get really depressed and then she takes it out on herself that she can't make me happy, and things just get even worse. Things just aren't working out that well. Sometimes, like you, she will try to do it even though she really does want to, and then I have to turn her down because it takes all the pleasure away that way. It isn't that I only want sex, I want all of her, but sex is just a big part of a relationship, to me. Girls just don't really understand guys and how we feel either. In turn I feel like my libido is being wasted because I'm young and ready to go and yet I can't. I won't ever cheat on her.