Well today the girl walked in and I said hi to her and she was friendly and started talking to me. I guess whether or not I say hi depends on the situation, its hard to describe, like depending on differerent things like how we are positioned and whether other people are around or not, it just sometimes seems like there is an opening and sometimes not. I am hoping that she is not taking it personally or anything when I don't find an opening and don't say hi.

My job is IT, there are other people I make small talk with when I see, but of the people who sit around me these are the two who seemed open to socializing. I usually eat lunch on my own, those people usually pack their lunch and I don't. I don't feel like I am close enough with anybody else to ask them if they want to go to luch together and it would probably be awkward.