kisha, how do you know you are pregnant? It doesn't seem like long enough since you had sex to know for sure. I would not say anything to this man until you have been to a doctor and confirmed your pregnancy.

I so also think you should probably think long and hard about whether it's good for you to be having drunken nights with people in their 20's. I don't know what the law is in the UK, but here in the states, the night you descibed broke several laws. In legal issues aside, there is a big difference in maturity and life experience from 16 to 23, and it's probably best to go through those years with others closer to you own age.

mj