My girlfriend just moved out on the 7th but left the house on the 1st after a massive fight. She wouldn't talk to me just said she is moving out. She waited until Friday to tell me it's over and that she was leaving the next day. Last year we broke up for a month but weren't living together at the time and I did everything I could to make amends with her and rekindle the relationship. Things were going really well until i hit my head and spiraled downward. We moved in and had some smaller disagreements but nothing that could not be worked through or taken care of with a hug. She wanted me to cuddle her more and show more affection but I was having so many mental issues with my head I couldn't do anything but concentrate on my health. We started arguing more in December when she told me she was going on a trip to Italy to a friends wedding in August that I was not invited to. I was hurt and didn't know how to deal with it so we just argued over really dumb stuff. It finally came to a head and she left. There was no real closure but I feel that she made a quick decision because of this same friend that had a hand in Us separating last year (its also her wedding). I love this girl with all of my heart and I know she feels the same. We went to counseling last year and it helped a ton but I lost my job and she is in graduate school and i didn't have the money to keep paying. She said she didn't want to talk to me when she left, but her mother was crying and so was she. I just read a book called my name is hope that really changed my view on life and my trajectory. I really want to reach out to her, but I don't know if I should. I think that even if we don't get back together, counseling would be really positive for some closure. Any advice on what to do or how to do it would be great! I had thought about making amends with her friend and family first but I don't know how to go about it. I just sent her mom a bday card and she wrote me back saying I was in her thoughts and she hoped I was ok. So again any help or advice would be amazing!!