Ipse, after reading a lot or your posts on this issue, given how unusual your relationship with your T was... wonder if SHE'S having a problem with the closeness?? Maybe she felt that she could cross the boundaries of a healthy relationship if she continued being your T? It's also possible that her sexuality isn't homosexual but felt that she could cross that line. If she's uncomfortable with that, I can see why she wouldn't want to see you face to face again.

You know, Ts are human, too, and just as prone to making mistakes as the rest of us. Having said that, my T suddenly ended our relationship by cancelling an appt. right after she had given me a depression quiz. I was as low as I have ever been, yet she cancelled the next appt and never returned my calls. Two weeks later, I ended up in the psych ward. Naturally, I blamed her. She new what I was headed for. They called her from the hospital and she never answered their calls either.

About three months later, I ran into her and she acted like nothing had ever happened. She was excited about seeing most of the family and JUST HAD to wait around to see the two grandkids that were with us. As she walked away, it stuck me that she was too happy, too excited and making damn well sure that we KNEW just how happy she was. Something was wrong there, for sure!

Like I said, Ts are human, too. Who knows what was going on in her life at the time... aside from a divorce. She seemed so happy about it. Too much so.

Another hitch in that "relationship." When I got out of the hospital, the staff made sure I had a T to see. The T they assigned me to rented office space from my former T. I saw him once. He called me and said there was a problem with my insurance. There was no such thing. What was I supposed to think? I'm pretty sure my former T said something to him. Who knows what, though.

So much for Ts for me!