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When someone says they miss you a lot and feel empty without you being there; how do you respond?
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"Look for other ways to fill that void."
His comment makes me uneasy. I wonder if it is his intention to make you you feel pressured to talk with him, or to feel some responsibility to fix the emptiness? I hope that you don't.
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normally that person becomes controlling from what I have seen too.
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Yes, controlling. That was my reaction.
The comment made me think of
emotional blackmail--where someone tries to manipulate your feelings in order to get what they want.
Out of the FOG - Emotional Blackmail
What I heard was someone trying to make you feel guilty and responsible for that alleged emptiness.